Recently I came across an article which interestingly marked
a difference between a reaction and a response. This prompted me to explore
what actually these two are and what is the line that segregates them. To make
it simple, reactions are mostly destructive and are an emotional or physical
response while responses are made after a clear thought and are highly
appreciated.
Let us consider a scenario where your child breaks a brand
new watch of yours. What will be yours – reaction or response?
Reaction - Beat the child and scold him for the act.
Response- Explain the child about the price of that watch and
tell him how much you like it and how much you are disturbed by the act.
The former is an immediate reaction while the latter is a
positive approach. The next time the child happens to touch anything that is
precious, will you think he will try to break it? He would definitely think
of its value and your love for it.
Of course, it is very difficult to respond since we human are
tuned to react immediately. It is always better to cultivate this habit of response
rather than reaction and I am working on it too…..
your example might work in a controlled environment.but not in today's world where children are constantly exposed to the use and throw syndrome,and instant gratification.
ReplyDeleteI agree but a little attitude change can bring in a lot of effect on the child's behaviour!Why don't we try? I am also trying on it....
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